Tuesday, October 11, 2016

WHEN CAN I SAY I'M SUCCESSFUL?



We have different understandings concerning the concept of success. We may all be right but today I want to share with you, what I believe about success.
         Let’s begin by defining the word “success”. I refer success to achieving of something. On the other hand, achieve means reach or attain (a desired objective, level or result) by effort, skill or courage; in other words it’s an accomplishment not competition.
         The moment you weigh what you have (could be wealth, education, spouse, beauty or anything else) in comparison to what other person has, you’re making a huge mistake because success is not measured by comparing what you’ve done to what others have done. Their limits are not your limits. Once you attain their level or class, you simply relax unknowingly that you can be better than them. For them, it might be their success but not for you.
Success is measured by what you have done and what you should or could have done, hence purpose is the key to success.
         Here comes the question, what is your purpose?
It’s sad when one lives without a purpose because his life will only be time wasting either doing nothing or helping others in fulfilling their purpose.
Purpose or goal is a map that gives you direction and focus your preferences (limit choices) in life to get you to your destination where then you will be a called a successor. Otherwise, you will be going fast but nowhere.
Your plans should correspond to your purpose.
        I encourage you today that it is never too late to set a goal. Your future is more important and powerful than your past. I believe you can do greatest things that this world has never encountered but only if you stop competing, instead working to achieve your own purpose.
Remember; success of your life is trapped within you.
       I wish you a very successful life…!

 
                                                                                   By; Deborah Nin

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

THE BEAUTIFUL ONES

The beautiful eyes have cried most tears
They have handled pains which are hard to bear
They have carried sufferings that are very bitter
But they have always tried to look so much sweeter

The beautiful lips have talked many lies
Then have hidden their weaps with false smiles
Then have been mocked by freaks that are harsh
But for days and weeks they have been the wiser ones

The beautiful hearts have gotten a thousand heart attacks
They have gotten into fights which have torn their hearts apart
They have been hurt each God’s day and njght
But have always encouraged themselves that,’ everything will be all right

The beautiful voices had to make lots of hard choices
They had to say ‘yes’ for times they didn’t intend
They’d to say ‘no’ for things they would never ignore
Even saying ‘I don’t know’ for things they knew more

The beautiful words had to talk in an opposite way
They had to say ‘its okay’ even if they had a bad day
They’d to say ‘it’s over’ though they needed moreover
 Saying ‘am truly sorry’ though they didn't even worry

The beautiful girls had fell in love with stupid guys
They gave them all their hearts but the dump boys gave them only a part
They kept them always in their minds while the freaking boys wanted to be kept under their pants

And every single day they were in their dreams while the bad boys wanted to stick in their wetly lips

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

BEING A DAD

With no invitation card
Than to start being a dad
As each kid thinks u are bad

It really needs a great mind








Also a heart which is very kind
To make all your kids bind
Leaving all yours stress behind

A dad should not be at all nasty
Living the ‘now’ and not the ‘past’
Looking for food always the first
And turns out to eat the last

I can so say ‘Am gifted’
Having a dad so brightened
A great thinker coming home loaded
Saying ‘Am tired and exhausted,,...’   





 written by;
WINGIRA MPAMILA.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

CARE






Care is attention, providing what they need, feeling of worry and anxiety, be responsible, important, like or love.
In life, there is care we give and care we receive. In both kind of cares, one has to be very careful in identifying either it’s real or fake.
You might be cared simply because you are loved.  When he or she doesn't like seeing you in cries of suffering and so becomes ready to face anything with you, share your pains and make you feel strong again. The ones who truly care will always be happy for your success, they will protect your people and your properties even in your absence. Their action will be stronger than their words because care is orally proved.
It will be worse if one cares for a reason.  That is why there is say saying, it is better having thousand enemies outside than a single enemy inside.  I may group this single enemy inside, under fake friends because there is no way he or she got in without pretending to be good. They pretend to care either to acquire title for your famous status in town, for them too to become a topic in media. Or maybe to spy your life, make someone jealous, receive your special attention, get relief of their problems by being parasites and the likes.

Let me tell you friend, care doesn't ask why, doesn't focus on benefiting, doesn’t seek for praise or congratulation. You have to be reasonable when giving or receiving any kind of care. Don’t give a fake care as well as be wise to identify the cares you receive. Note that; if you’re not careful enough, you might push away your truly care and stick with the fake ones. At a time you realize, it will be too late to return it back and you’ll never get one like that. Listen to advice but not all opinions are to be trusted.

Written by Deborah N. @2009

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

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