CARE

Care is attention, providing what they need, feeling of worry and anxiety, be responsible, important, like or love.

In life, there is care we give and care we receive. In both kind of cares, one has to be very careful in identifying either it’s real or fake.

You might be cared simply because you are loved.  When he or she doesn't like seeing you in cries of suffering and so becomes ready to face anything with you, share your pains and make you feel strong again. The ones who truly care will always be happy for your success, they will protect your people and your properties even in your absence. Their action will be stronger than their words because care is orally proved.

It will be worse if one cares for a reason.  That is why there is say saying, it is better having thousand enemies outside than a single enemy inside.  I may group this single enemy inside, under fake friends because there is no way he or she got in without pretending to be good. They pretend to care either to acquire title for your famous status in town, for them too to become a topic in media. Or maybe to spy your life, make someone jealous, receive your special attention, get relief of their problems by being parasites and the likes.

Let me tell you friend, care doesn't ask why, doesn't focus on benefiting, doesn’t seek for praise or congratulation. You have to be reasonable when giving or receiving any kind of care. Don’t give a fake care as well as be wise to identify the cares you receive. Note that; if you’re not careful enough, you might push away your truly care and stick with the fake ones. At a time you realize, it will be too late to return it back and you’ll never get one like that. Listen to advice but not all opinions are to be trusted.

Written by Deborah N. @2009